dear narrator...

let me get this straight.

i believe we're in the same plight so i believe advicing you will be a learning experience for me as well.

humans, yes, that includes you even if you think you are not one, never cease to communicate. blame non-verbal communication why your mum told you “You just hurt my feelings,”

yes, you probably never said anything (are you sure you're not lying? hehe), unfortunately--or fortunately, depends on how you think, according to Paul Watzlawick's Interactional View, "One cannot not communicate"

communication does not only revolve around spoken words y'know. but on non-verbal as well. this includes your "body language"

so now you know.

always remeber: Communication=Content+Relationship
"Content is "what" is actually said, while relationship is "how" it is said (Griffin 170)."
what and how classify each other. "information on how the talker wants to be understood and how he himself sees his relation to the receiver of information" is always involved in the communication process. let's not forget to think before we talk. it always works. ;-)

knowing that people can hardly appreciate the things we do good is most definitely tragic. but take note of this though: "Both the talker and the receiver of information structure the communication flow differently and therefore interpret their own behaviour during communicating as merely a reaction on the other's behaviour."

i believe it's all about putting things in the right context.

you're smart. i believe.
you'll get through this. my sisters's also annoying me.


take care,
jesse ramon